Every child goes through those years of 'heartlessness.' You treat them with such kindness and love, showering them with meticulous care—fearing they might be cold, hungry, or bullied. Yet, they respond with slammed doors, backtalk, cold shoulders, and impatience, staging a grand rehearsal for their independence.
Meanwhile, you are navigating a difficult farewell, marked by breakdowns, tears, and countless deep breaths. They use defiance to announce their coming of age, while you endure the weight of it all, shielding and tolerating their rebellion.
Do not blame yourself for your shifting moods, and do not regret the moments you spoke out of frustration. It is precisely this 'pathetic' perseverance that becomes the most reliable harbor for a child during the turbulent turning point of their youth.
Hold on just a little longer. For the days soaked in a mother’s tears will ultimately become the child’s deepest understanding and memory of love once they reach adulthood.
每一个孩子都会经历最没良心的那几年.你对他那么好，那么爱他，你对他无微不至的关怀，怕他冷着怕他饿着，怕他冻着，怕别人欺负他，他却用关门，顶嘴，甩脸子，不耐烦演练一场盛大的独立. 而你在用崩溃，眼泪和无数个深呼吸完成一次艰难的告别.他在用对抗的方式宣告自己的长大而你忍辱负重包容守护着他的这个叛逆.别责怪自己的情绪多变，别后悔自己的口是心非，正是这份看似狼狈不堪的坚持成了青春风暴里孩子人格转折期最可靠的港湾. 再坚持一下，因为在妈妈眼泪中浸泡过的日子最终都是孩子成年以后对爱最深刻的理解和记忆.
